Let's Talk About SEX

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Part 1

1. What do we normally define sex as? Is this definition correct? If not, what is sex then?

2. How does the truth about what sex is differ from what we normally hear, see, and think?

3. What misconceptions does society hold concerning the commitment of abstinence? How are they wrong?

4. What are some protective measures or boundaries that you need to set up in your life in order to best equip you to live a life of sexual integrity? (Religious participation, Friends, Media, Dating, Activities, ect.)

5. Many people struggle with lust, whether they just have wandering eyes or they are addicted to porn. How can we battle and overcome lust? Is lust even that big of a deal?

6. Why is accountability so essential in living out a life of sexual integrity?

Part 2

1. Sex is everywhere we look. Why does sex play such a pivotal role in society?

2. Can there really be such a thing as casual, emotionally uninvolved sex?

3. Sex affects all of who we are (physical, intellectual, emotional, social, and spiritual). Why do you think sex involves and affects all of who we are, and not just the physical?

4. Why is it so easy to get caught up in only the physical aspect of sex?

5. Say you have a significant other that you really like, or even love. You naturally want to show your affection to that person, right? But, how far is too far?

Part 3

1. What is the point of dating if you aren't looking for a husband or wife? Why date if you aren't going to have sex?

2. What does it take in order to experience a healthy dating relationship that leads to a healthy marriage?

3. What do you think are some reasons that so many marriages end in divorce these days?

4. What is love and what does it have to do with sex? After all, sex is called making love for a reason, right?

5. Has your concept of sex changed through this? How?